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Social gaming and live streaming

Apps guidance for parents and carers

If your child is gaming online, they may be using platforms to allow them to chat and communicate with other players or friends.

Get advice on the latest social gaming and live streaming apps children are using to help them get the most out of their experience.

Types of social gaming and live streaming apps

Many children use games like Roblox to socialise with friends. However, there are also apps like Discord and Twitch designed for communication outside of games.

As well as large communities online, through internet forums and messaging websites like Reddit, each gaming platform has its own way of allowing users to communicate.

Learn about some of the most popular social video games and community platforms to keep your child safe.

Discord (13+)

Discord is a platform for people with similar interests to share and communicate. It's popular among the gaming community as it offers a way for video game players to communicate with each other and develop a community outside of the games themselves.

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Minecraft (7+)

Minecraft is a popular video game among children of all ages on which you can customise communication. For younger children, we recommend turning communication off or ensuring they only have friends they know offline (such as those from school).

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Roblox (all ages)

Roblox is another game popular among all age groups, though some content is only appropriate for certain ages. Still, it's one of the most popular video gaming platforms for children to communicate with their friends outside of school.

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Steam (13+)

Steam is a popular platform for buying and playing video games across various operating systems. It also hosts an active community feature where users can discuss video games, leave reviews and more.

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Twitch (13+)

Twitch is a live streaming platform with millions of users. Geared towards the gaming community, it offers gaming news, product announcements, events and a community of fans who really love games. Additionally, Twitch broadcasts lucrative esports tournaments, which offer large sums of prize money to professional players.

LEARN ABOUT TWITCH

YouTube Gaming (13+)

The gaming part of YouTube Live works similar to Twitch where users can watch a streamer play video games while engaging in the chat with other viewers. YouTube also has pre-recorded videos that users can engage with and comment on.

LEARN ABOUT YOUTUBE

What to know about socialising in games

Gaming is a great way for young people to engage, have fun and socialise. As such, increasingly more apps and platforms have chat and messaging functions for players.

What are the benefits?

The way children communicate has changed over the years. Instead of phone calls, young people prefer to text; instead of hanging out and chatting at the park, children might prefer to hop on Roblox to play and chat with friends after school.

With social gaming, there are a range of benefits, including some of the following.

  • Opportunities for socialising: Some children struggle to socialise offline or might not have the opportunity to do so. Social gaming can help these children develop their social skills and find people to talk to who share a common interest. Nearly half (46%) of children who play Roblox, for instance, say they’ve made new friends on the platform.
  • Feelings of belonging: In research completed with Roblox, 1 in 3 neurodivergent young people who game said playing games made them feel like part of a community.
  • Teamwork and cooperation: There are different types of multiplayer games. Some have every player competing against each other, while other multiplayers — co-op games — require users to form teams and work together. This style of play can help children develop collaborative skills useful for other areas of life.

What are the risks?

  • Interaction with strangers: One of parents’ biggest concerns is interaction with strangers of all different ages around the world. While some could be harmful, it’s important to remember that most are not. To keep your child safe, check in regularly with who they talk to. You should also have conversations about potential risk and how to prevent harm.
  • Inappropriate content: Live streams contain a greater risk of exposure to inappropriate content as the content happens in real time. Additionally, chat functions present risk of inappropriate language or mannerisms you might not want your child encountering. However, again, regular conversations about what is and is not appropriate can help your child navigate these issues.
  • Cyberbullying, trolling and hate: Wherever there is communication online, there is a risk of bullying and hateful behaviours. Some users might use discriminatory language or try to provoke outrage. If your child is active in these communities, make sure they know when and how to report such behaviour. You should also encourage them to block anyone saying harmful things.

4 tips for safe social gaming

If your child is a social butterfly when it comes to video games, here are four tips to keep them safe.

Manage friend requests

Use parental controls in video games and on games consoles to manage who your child talks to. For younger children especially, you might want to pre-approve who they add to their friends list (or who adds them). This still lets them socialise while they game but limits interactions with strangers.

Talk early and often

Alongside parental controls, conversations are key to keeping children safe in social games. Talk about who they play with, what they like about the game, what to do if something goes wrong and issues they might come across. Regular conversations mean your child is more likely to come to you if they need help.

Review your child's games

Check that your child meets the minimum age requirement for the social games they want to play. These age minimums often relate to the socialisation available in-game, so check PEGI or online shops for age restrictions. Playing together can also help you explore the game and types of interactions yourself to decide whether or not it's appropriate for your child.

Keep children informed

Explain the risks your child faces while playing social games, though remember that not all risks lead to harm. Children should know the signs of unhealthy or harmful behaviours from others so that they can recognise when something is not right.

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